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A Guide to what Erotica gets wrong and how to do your relationships safely.
About This Book
Erotica is a lot of fun to read. Spicy, kinky erotica helps a lot of people experience their desires and fantasies in a safe, controlled environment.
However, in order to achieve maximum spice and maximum reader satisfaction, many erotica authors (myself included) will take shortcuts and skip negotiation scenes, or ignore the need for safety shears during a rope scene, etc. This is all fine, as long as you are aware of the sins that the book is committing, especially if you ever desire to have a kinky relationship in real life.
This book is an explanation of the most common differences I've noticed between erotic fiction and real life, and is an introductory guide to how to stay safe while fulfilling your deepest fantasies. Topics covered include:
Consent
Negotiation
Safe Words
Protection and STIs/STDs
Risk Profiles and RACK
Spotters
Recording
Safety Shears
Kink vs Sex
Power Dynamics
However, in order to achieve maximum spice and maximum reader satisfaction, many erotica authors (myself included) will take shortcuts and skip negotiation scenes, or ignore the need for safety shears during a rope scene, etc. This is all fine, as long as you are aware of the sins that the book is committing, especially if you ever desire to have a kinky relationship in real life.
This book is an explanation of the most common differences I've noticed between erotic fiction and real life, and is an introductory guide to how to stay safe while fulfilling your deepest fantasies. Topics covered include:
Consent
Negotiation
Safe Words
Protection and STIs/STDs
Risk Profiles and RACK
Spotters
Recording
Safety Shears
Kink vs Sex
Power Dynamics